How to… make hair extensions look good (not scraggly and shit)

We all see them. Those girls walking around town, with scraggly, rat tail, Britney-esque hair extensions (sorry Brit, I still love you, but your hair is rank). They personally offend me and give my kind a bad name.

See, I’ve been wearing hair extensions for five years nearly, and they’ve only ever been noticed by a handful of people (for example; hair professionals, other extension wearers, or housemates who’ve realized when my hair is shoulder-length one morning than magically grows a few inches just hours later).  In fact, the compliments I receive about my hair far outweigh the enquiries I receive as to whether it’s real.

I’d like to think that all this means I wear them well, so if you’d like to lengthen your locks but don’t want to end up looking like one of those girls (Bianca Gascoigne, anyone?) make sure you follow these golden rules:

ALWAYS use clip-ins

A weave will wreck your hair. I had a friend at Uni whose beautiful, fine blonde hair was completely savaged by having a lengthening weave put in, and she still regrets it to this day. Likewise, avoid glued-in extensions; they will make you look tacky. The glue makes it incredibly hard to look after your own hair as you’re not supposed to get it wet (so washing your hair properly goes out the window), and you’ll end up ‘shedding’ bits of dried-up glue and a strand of hair or 10.  Professionally applied hair extensions may work for Cheryl Cole, but that’s because she has a personal hair stylist on hand at all times, and enough moolah to keep them in tip top condition.

Trust that clip-ins are your only friend when it comes to hair extension options; you can easily change your mind, they won’t damage your natural hair and are a hell of a lot cheaper than any other option.

Pick the right colour

Picking the right colour extensions is pretty overwhelming, granted. However, it’s actually incredibly easy. All hair extensions are coloured universally according to a chart, so the best idea is to grab a copy of the chart from google, and ask a professional or friend with a good eye to match up your own hair colour to the closest on the chart. It doesn’t matter if it isn’t perfect; you can always dye it.  Be sure to check the colours match up in all lights, particularly daylight.

Make your own clip-ins

Really, this was the best advice I was ever given. It’s actually surprisingly easy, and is the best option for three reasons. Firstly, you can cut the hair into pieces for your own skull, meaning they’ll be the best fit they can be. Secondly, you can create different thickness for each piece; I have particularly thick hair, so I double up all my pieces to make them thicker. Doing this if you have thick hair will ensure you’ll avoid that mullet-y look, where the hair gets progressively thinner from the top of the head to the ends. Thirdly; this is by far the cheapest option. Depending on the lengths and quality of the hair you buy, you can expect to pay anything from £25 to £50. If you look after your extensions, they could last you up to 6 months. Really quite cheap when you think about it that way.  For a detailed tutorial on how to make your own clip-in extensions, watch this.

Don’t be afraid to cut your extensions

Just cutting up into the ends yourself with a pair of blunt scissors can help take away that fake look. However, if you can it’s probably best to take them along to a professional hair stylist (you can always wait until your next visit and offer them an extra tenner to cut the extensions for you).

Know your own hair and work with it

Another big mistake girls with rubbish hair extensions make is that they try to style their hair in a completely different way from their natural look. If your hair is naturally straight, you can get away with straight extensions (however, I’d still wash them a couple of times and blow dry them straight so they look more realistic). However, if your hair has any kind of natural wave or curl you really MUST curl your extensions. Any slight hint of a natural element and your natural hair is going curl up, leaving you with dead straight extensions hanging underneath. Not a great look, let’s be honest.

The best way to style your hair extensions is by putting them in, then curling your natural hair and extensions together as much as possible, particularly around where your natural hair stops and the extensions begin, so as to create a blending effect. I’ve used the Babyliss Waving Wand for nearly two years now and it’s not let me down yet.

Look after your hair extensions

Brush them out carefully after everytime you wear them. Avoid using products on them, and do remember to wash them occasionally, lest you want to smell of smoke and eau-de-kebab. Remember they won’t last forever, and don’t be stingy in replacing them if they start to look ratty. You’ll kick yourself if you don’t once you start seeing last weekend’s pictures go up on Facebook (trust me; I’ve been there).

And voila! You now should have hair extensions good enough to fool even the most intelligent of friends, and avoid ending up on Snog, Marry, Avoid. Just be wary of the following; losing a clip-in on the dance floor after whipping your hair back and forth too vigorously, likewise losing a clip-in by doing something else altogether too vigorously (ahem) and getting your hair extensions trapped in the tube doors.  Ouch.

– Fiona Goby

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  • Comments

  • avatar
    Natalie

    I remember when I first discovered your hair wasn’t strictly ‘au naturale’, Fi. Slack-jawed, I was. Who knew?!

    (Everyone knows now… oops)

  • avatar
    Karen

    This is a great article! Getting a hairdresser to cut the clip ins is the.best.advice.ever!!

  • avatar
    Paige

    Cutting the ends its great! I bought some 20inch.. and you could really tell where it ended:/ Any chance you could email me with advice?

    • avatar
      Natalie

      We’ll have to get resident hair expert Fiona on the case here. OR get her to do a follow-up post to this…

    • avatar
      Fi

      I’m here! Although an expert I am not, just someone who has been using extensions with a decent level of success for five years! What do you want to know? 🙂

  • avatar
    Laura Pritchett

    I think clip in extensions are so much better than any other kind there easy to put in, and also you can take them out when you please! Remember hair extensions can be used to thicken your hair to for people out there with thin hair! But try not to dye them or use heat on them all the time as it will shrink them and make them feel like plastic if you get the real hair.

  • avatar
    Laura

    Awesome article, so true and well wrote 🙂 always see girls out with short hair then scraggly bits down, not a good look.

    I need some advise, I have just brought some clip ins I’m more a bleach blonde and these are more ash (which is fine I’m having my hair coloured at the salon to match them as I want to go darker) However my hair is quite fine and I normally wear my extensions curly so they blend more

    Should I buy another weft and double them up??? Or would my fine hair make the wefts too easily visible

    Many thanks L XXXX

    • avatar
      Fi

      Hi Laura,

      Thanks for your kind words!

      I think they’d be fine doubled-up, as long as you wear your hair curly. I think even if your hair is fine, generally the weft is quite fine anyway, plus they’ll thin out over time so that way they’ll last longer.

      Good luck! 🙂

      x

  • avatar
    roselyn

    Its my first time to see this post..,,,,,,,,,,,
    Nice post it lids everybody to take care of thier hair to make his/her self good.;p

  • avatar
    madii brookes

    Hey, clip in hair extentions are great! But I also reccomend checking out halo! yes halo hair extentions. I have super short hair and i use it. Its one piece on a miricle wire! Totaly worth every penny! x

  • avatar
    Jessica

    So I have really thick curly hair and I miss my long hair but when I straighten it sometimes it does poof. And I fear that the curly extentions don’t match my curls at all… So should I probably just not go with extentions and wait till my hair grows out?

    • avatar
      Fiona

      Hi Jessica!

      Deffo try extensions I’d say, if that’s what you really want to do!

      I have the same sort of hair too – very thick and curly, and it never stays straight. I just used to get around the curl issue by putting my extensions in (after straightening my hair) then using a curling wand to gently curl/wave my hair and the extensions – really helps them blend and disguises the natural curling/poufing effect of your own hair. Trying to get volume in the extensions (by doubling up the weave, curling and gently backcombing) helps disguise too!

      Occassionally my hair would pouf up a bit if the weather was really bad, so to save it in an emergency I’d tie it into a nice fishtail plait or braid (with the extensions) and sort of wear it over one shoulder. I still do that now, even though I don’t have extensions anymore (my hair has grown a lot!)

      Hopefully it works for you 🙂 x

  • avatar
    Amy

    I bought extensions but they’re way too thin for my hair. How do I make my hair extensions look thicker? I bought it from Rapunzel of Sweden. I got them today and I’m really upset because they’re just way too thin even though theres extra ones for them to become thicker, they still haven’t.

  • avatar
    chlo

    Hello, my friend is a hairdresser and she advised me to wash my extentions with washing up liquid to get the chemical straightener out of the extentions,
    as I have wavy weird frizzy nest hair, and then to hold the end of my extentions and blow dry in the opposite direction to add thickness, let me tell you I was hesitant at first (with good reason) but I found this actually worked for me!!
    BUT I wouldnt do this all the time as it gets quite tangly and it will ruin you’re beloved hair:-)

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