Girls. You know how it is. You go on a date with a guy. You like him and think it’s going great guns. He, on the other hand, has obviously had a change of heart – for whatever reason. Shame he doesn’t tell you, right?
Never fear, the Le Blow Manifesto is here. We put this conundrum to our panel of men (Manel?) to tell us THE TRUTH. be warned, it might hurt…
MAN 1 //
MAN 2 //
MAN 3 //
- I am aware that the ‘together forever’ gene is not present in every woman and some of you beautiful people are not on a constant mission to find Mr Right.
- I am aware that boys too can be guilty of overthinking situations including the most trivial of decisions.
- I am aware that choosing ‘high expectations’ may slightly paint me as an egotistical arsehole (I’m not honestly) who in reality has rarely actually experienced this particular pet peeve.
The truth of the matter is that I simply don’t like being seen as something I’m perhaps not. If you spot me across a crowded room or in the gym and you think “that beardy fellow is a handsome beast” then I’ll be flattered. If you meet me and think “not only does he have a charm about him, he also has a cracking personality and can make me laugh” then I’ll be happy.
Well… only if you tell me.
MAN 4 //
I guess this depends on how long you’ve been seeing someone, so this would relate to the very early stages only. For me, it’s how a girl conducts herself when drunk, or knowing her limits bascially.
I’ve been on several dates where the girl has drunk far too much and quickly becomes an incoherent, mumbling mess. You try to slow the pace down, but by then it’s too late. They then start assessing the flaws of their past relationship or end up falling asleep on your shoulder. They could be many reasons why this happens, but I believe we all know our capacity, and unless you’re both really tolerant, just take it easy and have some dignity.
Ooooh! The Le Blow men have spoken. Now have YOUR say here: